Just last night a friend of mine that I've always had told me he is willing to change from a bad, devlish figure to a nice guy like I am, or so some people say. This can be a hard task to change a person. I'm kind of wondering if it will work or not. I mean he was a pretty good guy in the summer but then he met a bunch of my other friends and turned down the wrong path. So I don't know what I should. I think it would be smart to improve mannerisms first. The first concept I'm getting at is it's hard to change a person back to who they were. I've been trying to myself and it's very hard to do. A person can't expect immediate results in the changes he/she made because it takes a while. A person needs examples of the figure they are trying to change to in order to actually change. For me it's easy. I just look back on my old self and try to figure out what I need to do to be like that.
This "changing" friend also has another friend that is a girl but their relationship fell apart in a matter of weeks. She then came to me to ask what is going on with him. She asked why he isn't talking to her anymore and questions like that. I asked her I could help her out. She replied saying sure you don't have to though. I insisted that I should. Then as the week went on, she asked me if I found any more information out about him ignoring her. I told her that he could be getting back to her and she got her hopes up. Well, then she went instinctly to him to ask him if thats true and he said no. She then stopped all asscociation with me. I just want to tell her sorry that I lied. So this time I ask of my audience to help me give advice.
It will be a difficult task to change your friend. I'm sorry for the things I've done and I'm sorry if I was involved in him turning down the wrong path. I've changed who I am and have grown into a different person. I am the same person but I've matured and no longer want to do the things that will get me into trouble. Your friend will turn out to be a great person. He needs guidance, a role model, and people such as you great to guide him to be a better person. I don't know how much help I can be but let me know if I can help in anyway.
ReplyDeleteOk. Should I try to call and reconcile to her? and thanks man. I appreciate it.
ReplyDeleteYou can try to call and reconcile with her, but she probably won't respond to you. I don't know what will happen, but if she doesn't want to talk to you and work it out then she is not worth the time. Just move on and enjoy your life. Cherish each day like it was your last, because you are able to live forever, but you could die today. Make each day memorable, make each memory last a lifetime, and be who you want to be no one else.
ReplyDelete